#BCSM transcript

Healthcare Social Media Transcript

From: Mon Jul 09 18:00:00 PDT 2012
To: Mon Jul 09 19:15:00 PDT 2012

What is #BCSM? Who were the influencers during this time period? #BCSM analytics


Healthcare Conference  - Healthcare Tweet Chats  -  Healthcare Analytics

drattai
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RT @stales: 1 minute until #bcsm
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@stales Fingers are getting warmed up! #bcsm
apdolan
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RT @stales: 1 minute until #bcsm
kimwhit
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RT @apdolan: RT @stales: 1 minute until #bcsm
stales
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GOOD EVENING #bcsm
drattai
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@jackiefox12 we'll miss you Jackie! And really, not one uncalled for comment? Sounds like you've got great family and friends! #bcsm
stales
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Everyone take a moment to introduce yourself and we'll get started shortly! #bcsm
stales
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Good evening @drattai!! #bcsm
stales
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@chemobrainfog hello, hello! #bcsm
drattai
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hi everyone! Deanna Attai, breast surgeon from LA, co-moderating with @stales #bcsm
dianeradfordmd
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@stales @DrAttai Hi Diane Radford here, breast surgeon from St. Louis #bcsm
JenniferAlhasa
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Hi, everyone! So excited to join you tonight! I am a survivor & Cancer Coach. Can't wait to share in the energy with you! #BCSM
drattai
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@dianeradfordmd Hi Diane - glad you could join us - hope summer is going well #bcsm
jenniegrimes
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#bcsm Good evening all! Jennie Grimes, stage 4 fighter in Denver.
talkabouthealth
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Hello Everyone! @DrAttai @stales @kimwhit @dianeradfordmd @chemobrainfog :) Looking forward to more people arriving too! #bcsm
rsm2800
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Hi all. Dr. Bob Miller, breast ca oncologist Johns Hopkins. Gonna sit back & listen since I've not been on the receiving end... #bcsm
drattai
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@JenniferAlhasa thanks for joining us, Jennifer - energy is one thing this group has plenty of! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Brenda Coffee, breast cancer advocate San Antonio, TX. #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@jackiefox12 You are a serious anomaly!!! I'll give you some of my stupid remarks to call your very own! #bcsm
stales
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Hi everyone, I'm Alicia 3x cancer survivor (hodgkin's and breast cancer) Co-moderating with @drattai tonight. #bcsm
teresamli
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Good evening #bcsm
rsm2800
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…but I've heard a few doozies in my time #bcsm
drattai
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@jenniegrimes welcome to the chat, Jennie #bcsm
stales
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Tonight - @jodyms is off, at a cancer event. We will miss her! #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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Murray here from @TalkAboutHealth Cancer Q&A and support. #bcsm
nancyspoint
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hello all. Nancy here. Educator, blogger, advocate two yrs post dx. #bcsm
drattai
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@BCSisterhood @chemobrainfog glad you could both join us #bcsm
stales
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Great to see some new faces tonight - and the usual crew too! #bcsm
brandie185
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Hello all. Brandie from Chicago here. #bcsm
drattai
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@rsm2800 welcome! Hope you're back to normal, with power! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@talkabouthealth Hi Murray!! #bcsm
dianeradfordmd
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@DrAttai, very well. Just back from a week in Mexico! #bcsm
miamicrime
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#bcsm sending everyone love from Miami
nancyspoint
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Go Jody! Yes we will miss her here tho. RT @stales: Tonight - @jodyms is off, at a cancer event. We will miss her! #bcsm
davidkroll
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Hi folks. Cancer natural product drug researcher and son of 27-yr breast cancer survivor. #bcsm
abhuret
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Greetings from NYC (and apologies to my tweep followers at large for the higher tweet volume next hour) #bcsm
drattai
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@NancysPoint @Brandie185 @talkabouthealth great to see you all #bcsm
feistybluegecko
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I'm Philippa, Scot based in Yangon, currently in Bangkok for med reasons, blogger and stage 3 #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Glad you & @stales are holding down the fort & AnneMarie's home from her trip. RT @DrAttai: @BCSisterhood @chemobrainfog #BCSM
drattai
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@dianeradfordmd sounds fantastic #bcsm
miamicrime
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#bcsm I'm struggling with emotional eating after treatment.
nancyspoint
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@feistybluegecko so glad you could make it! #bcsm
stales
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@feistybluegecko hello! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@davidkroll 27 year survivor! Give your mom a great big hug from us. #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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AnneMarie from New York, 5 yrs post tx, now blogging and advocating for change. This is a great start! #bcsm
teresamli
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Good evening #BCSM
talkabouthealth
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Hi @Brandie185 @rsm2800 @miamicrime @BCSisterhood @NancysPoint @davidkroll @ABHuret @feistybluegecko @jenniegrimes #bcsm
miamicrime
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#bcsm i want chocolate all the time.
stales
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Okay, tonight we're talking about "The Cancer Conversation" AKA --> People Say the Darnest Things!! #bcsm
Chemjobber
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RT @davidkroll: Hi folks. Cancer natural product drug researcher and son of 27-yr breast cancer survivor. #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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@ChemoBrainfog you are the best :) #bcsm
JenniferAlhasa
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For sure! RT @BCSisterhood: @davidkroll 27 year survivor! Give your mom a great big hug from us. #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@feistybluegecko Hey Philippa... sorry to see you are in the hospital. BIG hugs xoxo #bcsm
rsm2800
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@DrAttai Yes, finally, thnx. It took 6d for @awolff to get his back on. Lovely night in B'more 79 degrees & not too much humidity #bcsm
brandie185
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@DrAttai @talkabouthealth good evening! #bcsm
brandie185
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RT @stales: Okay, tonight we're talking about "The Cancer Conversation" AKA --> People Say the Darnest Things!! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Nancy & Philippa, so great to see you both. RT @NancysPoint: @feistybluegecko so glad you could make it! #BCSM
drattai
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@miamicrime thanks for joining us tonight #bcsm
brandie185
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We should make a book out of the stories we'll end up sharing tonight! #bcsm
nickdawson
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Thats the way! Wow MT @rsm2800: Dr. Bob Miller, breast ca oncologist Johns Hopkins. Gonna listen since I’ve not been on receiving end #bcsm
stales
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First question is coming up! #bcsm
nic_mclean
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RT @stales: Okay, tonight we're talking about "The Cancer Conversation" AKA --> People Say the Darnest Things!! #bcsm
drattai
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@feistybluegecko Phillipa sending love and support #bcsm
abhuret
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This topic could have it's own conference! #bcsm
drattai
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RT @Brandie185: We should make a book out of the stories well end up sharing tonight! #bcsm
nancyspoint
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@BCSisterhood good to see you as well. #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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What! hospital! Oh, not! I missed that! RT @chemobrainfog: @feistybluegecko #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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YES INDEED! RT @Brandie185: We should make a book out of the stories well end up sharing tonight! #bcsm
JenniferAlhasa
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Woohoo! :) RT @drattai: @JenniferAlhasa thanks for joining us, Jennifer - energy is one thing this group has plenty of! #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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Yes, we love you! RT @DrAttai: @feistybluegecko Phillipa sending love and support #bcsm
stales
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Q1: What are the most memorable things people said to you when your were diagnosed or in treatment? #bcsm
stylewithclass
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Isn't that the truth! "@Brandie185 We should make a book out of the stories we'll end up sharing tonight! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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You know it!!! RT @ABHuret: This topic could have its own conference! #bcsm
stylewithclass
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Just wanted to say a quick hello. Might lurk a bit but am a bit tired after annual exam today...#BCSM
miamicrime
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For those who don't know #bcsm is a group called breast cancer social media. Mon. 9 - 10 pm.
drattai
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RT @stales: Q1: What are the most memorable things people said to you when your were diagnosed or in treatment? #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@Brandie185 that's so funny! I wanted to turn a blogpost abt this into an ebook & donate funds. #bcsm
stales
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ROCK STAR! RT @rsm2800: Dr. Miller, breast ca oncologist Johns Hopkins. Gonna listen since I’ve not been on receiving end #bcsm
stales
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@StylewithClass hope all went well today. #bcsm
drattai
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@StylewithClass great to see you, Stephanie - hope everything is ok #bcsm
abhuret
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A1 "My aunt/mother/cousin had it and she died" (nominee for MOST unhelpful) #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Q1 "good cancer" "boob job" "mild chemo" (because I didn't lose my hair, just my brain) #bcsm
stylewithclass
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@DrAttai Thanks, Dr. Attai. Met w/ new BC surg for annual exam....went very well. #BCSM
nancyspoint
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Love a good listener! RT @stales: ROCK STAR! RT @rsm2800: Dr. Miller, breast ca oncologist Johns Hopkins. Gonna listen since I’ve no #bcsm
stylewithclass
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@stales thanks - all went well....just emotional overload #typical #BCSm
JenniferAlhasa
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A1: "If they can make a penis they can make a boob." #BCSM
bcsisterhood
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Woman w/big breasts wanted 2 give me her tissue, my surgeon said it wasn't Jello we could transfer from 1 Tupperware bowl to another! #BCSM
brandie185
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A1: Some1 asked if I had a mastectomy. I said yes. She said (staring at my chest) "but you look like you still have boobs!" #bcsm
davidkroll
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RT @miamicrime: For those who don't know #bcsm is a group called breast cancer social media. Mon. 9 - 10 pm.
nancyspoint
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Q1 "If you're going to get cancer, at least you got the good kind." Heard that one more than once... #bcsm
Pinkribbonwendi
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@stales I had a lady tell me "at least u had the good kind of cancer" (there's a GOOD KIND?!?) #bcsm
stylewithclass
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I could write a book on what people said to me: 1st DX: 'well, u didn't have 'real' cancer b/c u didn't need chemo.' No comment! #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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Sending you giant hugs. RT @miamicrime: #bcsm i want chocolate all the time. #bcsm
stales
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Q1 recap: so, we've heard: "You got the good cancer", "You don't look sick", "Gee, my friend had BC and she died" ...... What else? #bcsm
stylewithclass
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@Pinkribbonwendi @stales I had that same comment too - "the good one" OY. #BCSM
nancyspoint
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@Pinkribbonwendi Yep heard that one too. #bcsm
abhuret
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A1 Not to be overshadowed by "Well, at least you have the "good" kind of cancer". #HUH?! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@StylewithClass ARGGG #bcsm
Pinkribbonwendi
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@stales I've had friends whose family/friends have actually expressed fear of catching cancer! #bcsm
brandie185
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A1 I was asked several times "So, um, did you, you know, lose hair EVERYWHERE?" Um, yes, b/c I want to talk about my pubic hair thanks #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@stales Boob job!!! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Right! Pinkribbonwendi @stales I had a lady tell me "at least u had the good kind of cancer" (there's a GOOD KIND?!?) #bcsm #BCSM
yvonnewatterson
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Q1.but you look just like ... well, you. #bcsm
stales
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RT @Pinkribbonwendi: @stales Ive had friends whose family/friends have actually expressed fear of catching cancer! #bcsm
jedipd
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Hard-hitting #bcsm folks today including @DrAttai @rsm2800 @dianeradfordmd @stales All in great hands.
abhuret
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A1: "Well at least you'll have a fabulous rack when you're done". <steam smoking from ears> #bcsm
feistybluegecko
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@talkabouthealth @DrAttai @chemobrainfog @BCSisterhood Tks so much, been a rough time. but hey, no need to rush to work and miss #bcsm ;)
teamr0xy
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RT @DrAttai: Tonight on #BCSM - The Cancer Conversation - things people say and how to respond 9pm Eastern / 6pm Pacific cc @jodyms @sta ...
nancyspoint
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Hubby was point blank asked, "So did they have to take 'em both off?" He was stunned. #bcsm
drattai
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@JediPD glad you could join us - we're talking about "things people say" #bcsm
stales
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q1: first day back to work after double mast w/ no recon: co-worker looked at me and said "what happened to your chest?" #bcsm
stylewithclass
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And of course I am sure we all heard this one: "You don't look sick" - #BCSM
drattai
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Oh, wow - I thought I heard it all but you guys have had to deal with some real jerks! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@stales I've talked to several Hispanic husbands who think they can catch cancer from their wives. #BCSM
feistybluegecko
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A1 one very good friend "oh but they have really fine tuned chemo these days so it is so much easier" aaaarghhh! #bcsm
brandie185
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A1: Weirdest thing: someone I had just met said "Well if you die and your dd needs someone to talk to, she can call me." Umm, WTF? #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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I'm just going to say this: I am going to alternate between laughing hysterically and wanting to smash my laptop #bcsm
rsm2800
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RT @chemobrainfog: I'm just going to say this: I am going to alternate between laughing hysterically and wanting to smash my laptop #bcsm
bcsmchat
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RT @stylewithclass: And of course I am sure we all heard this one: "You don't look sick" - #BCSM
teamr0xy
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RT @stales: Okay, tonight we're talking about "The Cancer Conversation" AKA --> People Say the Darnest Things!! #bcsm
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RT @chemobrainfog: Im just going to say this: I am going to alternate between laughing hysterically and wanting to smash my laptop #bcsm
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@stales First time I went without my wig I had a customer scream "WHAT DID U DO TO YOUR HAIR!?!" me: "Got Cancer!" (she shut up) #bcsm
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@Brandie185 OMG.... Send that person to me, I'll kick their ass for you.... #bcsm
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RT @chemobrainfog: Im just going to say this: I am going to alternate between laughing hysterically and wanting to smash my laptop #BCSM
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RT @brandie185: A1: someone I had just met said "Well if you die and your dd needs someone to talk to, she can call me." Umm, WTF? #bcsm
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@BCSisterhood there are definitely a lot of cultural biases / misconceptions - lots of room for education #bcsm
miamicrime
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#bcsm I have been offered healing light by people who believe they can channel it and give it off with their hands
brandie185
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I hate to say it, but I looked like shit. And so I never heard the you don't look sick. I heard the opposite. Blech #bcsm
drattai
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@chemobrainfog don't smash the laptop!! We need your input! #bcsm
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or the suggestion that it must be my fault in some way ... "Oh, didn't you go for your mammograms?" #bcsm
brandie185
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@chemobrainfog I know. Isn't that crazy? I wouldn't even think that, let alone say it! #bcsm
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A1 one of my colleagues was astounded I had breast cancer, as married women don't get it - cultural aspect #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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ARG RT @miamicrime: #bcsm I have been offered healing light by people who believe they can channel it and give it off with their hands #bcsm
stylewithclass
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I got my wig b4 losing my hair....cried when I arrived: 87 yr old volunteer said: "when u compose yourself, come get me" #heartless #BCSM
Pinkribbonwendi
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@stales forgot to introduce myself. I'm coming up on my 6th cancerversary & founded a BC support group. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@DrAttai :) TY! #bcsm
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A1 It really upset me when people said they would pray for me. It made me think they knew something I didn't ... #bcsm
stales
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RT @Pinkribbonwendi: @stales forgot to introduce myself. Im coming up on my 6th cancerversary & founded a BC support group. #bcsm
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MT @Pinkribbonwendi 1st time I went w/o my wig I had a customer scream "WHAT DID U DO TO YOUR HAIR!?!" me: "Got Cancer!" (she shut up) #bcsm
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RT @ABHuret: A1 It really upset me when people said they would pray for me. It made me think they knew something I didn't ... #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Before a friend of mine died from breast cancer, someone told her she hadn't prayed hard enough! #BCSM
drattai
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RT @feistybluegecko: A1 one of my colleagues was astounded I had breast cancer, as married women dont get it - cultural aspect #bcsm
stales
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RT @DrAttai: @BCSisterhood there are definitely a lot of cultural biases / misconceptions - lots of room for education #bcsm
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RT @ABHuret: A1 It really upset me when people said they would pray for me. It made me think they knew something I didnt ... #bcsm
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A1: Someone said, upon hearing the news "So. You believe in God, right? Because I don't want to think about you going to hell." #bcsm
nancyspoint
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Oh my! RT @miamicrime: #bcsm I have been offered healing light by people who believe they can channel it #bcsm
drattai
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@StylewithClass wow... #bcsm
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Like I could 'pray' it away ... (no offense to anyone's religious beliefs, of course) #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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That is one I hate most. RT @BCSisterhood: Before a friend of mine died from breast cancer, someone told she hadnt prayed hard enough! #bcsm
stales
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Q1: drumrolll..... shittiest comment to me ever: about to get first chemo, nurse can't find vein to get started, and says........ 1/2 #bcsm
brandie185
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{I also feel I need to add, all these strang things were said by people NOT close to me. They were, thankfully, wonderful} #bcsm
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then there are the people who say "I just know you'll beat this." What would they say if they thought I wouldn't ... #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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UGH! RT @BCSisterhood: Before a friend of mine died from breast cancer, someone told her she hadnt prayed hard enough! #bcsm
teamr0xy
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Try being the pregnant bald chic in the chemo room or dr office. I always got questions & comments but most were positive. #bcsm
stylewithclass
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@DrAttai it blew my mind....my parents were with me. I was floored. I wasn't concerned about losing my hair..but still digesting DX #BCSM
drattai
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@yvonnewatterson sort of like first question to lung cancer patient - did you smoke- trying to find an answer but really placing blame #bcsm
stales
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Q1: "If you just calm down, chemo would be alot easier. i don't know why you're all worked up" 2/2 REALLY? #bcsm
jenniegrimes
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#bcsm "Wait, the breast cancer spread to your hip?! Does that mean another boob is growing there?" really?!?
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I think most people say what they say from discomfort, to make themselves feel better. Most are not trying to be offensive or mean. #BCSM
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@AdamsLisa and @ RennPatterson just both wrote excellent blogs about the prayer thing and "cope not hope" #bcsm
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Q1 after my mastect my 'friend' asked me, "So, do you feel lopsided?" (I swear it's the truth) #bcsm
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A1 Another winner: "You must not have eaten enough (fill in the blank)". Cause we all know about the weekly headlines! #bcsm
stales
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ouch. RT @BCSisterhood: Before a friend of mine died from breast cancer, someone told her she hadnt prayed hard enough! #bcsm
stales
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RT @DrAttai: sort of like first question to lung cancer patient - did you smoke- trying to find an answer but really placing blame #bcsm
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@Brandie185 sometimes the comments from strangers are more compassionate #bcsm
stylewithclass
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Ok...sorry to leave, definitely on breast cancer overload today...so, logging out.....thinking of you all. Take good care. #BCSM
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RT @abhuret: A1 Another winner: "You must not have eaten enough (fill in the blank)". Cause we all know about the weekly headlines! #bcsm
stales
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RT @abhuret: A1 Another winner: "You must not have eaten enough (fill in the blank)". Cause we all know about the weekly headlines! #bcsm
stales
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unreal! RT @debmthomas: Q1 after my mastect my 'friend' asked me, "So, do you feel lopsided?" (I swear it's the truth) #bcsm
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@yvonnewatterson How about those that say "keep fighting, fight harder" As though you are choosing to do something different!? #bcsm
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@stales I can't RT that but OMG.... #bcsm
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RT @yvonnewatterson then there are the people who say "I just know you'll beat this." What would they say if they thought I wouldn't #bcsm
brandie185
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A1: How about the people who are "chemo is poison they give just to make money. Don't get it." #bcsm
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@debmthomas Lordy, that's kinda like mine, (did they take em both off?) #bcsm
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Q1 people always commented on my hair as it grew back in, guess they figured it was a 'safe' topic? #bcsm
yvonnewatterson
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I have found the kindness of strangers, this group included, has helped immeasurably. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@StylewithClass Love to you, Stephanie!!! #bcsm
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Nurse from Hell when I told her I was severely allergic to pain med she was giving me: "Well let's hope it doesn't kill you." #BCSM
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MT @jenniferalhasa I think most people <speak> from discomfort, to make themselves feel better. Most arent trying to be offensive/mean #BCSM
stales
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RT @jenniegrimes: #bcsm "Wait, the breast cancer spread to your hip?! Does that mean another boob is growing there?" really?!?
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yikes! “@NancysPoint: @debmthomas Lordy, that's kinda like mine, (did they take em both off?) #bcsm
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RT @stales Q1: "If you just calm down, chemo would be alot easier. i don't know why you're all worked up" 2/2 REALLY? #bcsm
stales
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@chemobrainfog yup. needless to say, I never saw that nurse ever again. #bcsm
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And then, there is a cure in a lab somewhere. You know that, right? UMMMM, not a great idea to share such grassy knoll stupidity. #bcsm
drattai
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@jenniegrimes wow again - lots of wow's tonight! #bcsm
feistybluegecko
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so true - the kindness of strangers and support online balances the goofs of many #bcsm
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Now, of course, i hear it's over, right? things are back to normal, right? so comments keep coming. #bcsm
brandie185
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A1 "I was watching Doctor Oz. If you just drink green smoothies, you'll be fine!" Yeah. 100 bucks that's not how he'd treat his cancer #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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So many misconceptions! RT @ABHuret "You must not have eaten enough (fill in the blank)" Cause we all know about the weekly headlines! #bcsm
drattai
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RT @feistybluegecko: so true - the kindness of strangers and support online balances the goofs of many #bcsm
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@stales I would have made her cement shoes for you. :) #bcsm
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Agree but they also don't think.RT @jenniferalhasa I think most people speak from discomfort, arent trying to be offensive/mean #BCSM
stales
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RT @chemobrainfog there is a cure in a lab somewhere. You know that, right? not a great idea to share such grassy knoll stupidity. #bcsm
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@stales REALLY?!? All worked up, huh? Hope you reported to the Doc! #bcsm
stales
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RT @NancysPoint: Now, of course, i hear its over, right? things are back to normal, right? so comments keep coming. #bcsm
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@JenniferAlhasa I agree. Which is why I usually just smile and nod to people. I think they mean well. #bcsm
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Absolutely! RT @feistybluegecko: so true - the kindness of strangers and support online balances the goofs of many #bcsm
stales
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yay! RT @yvonnewatterson: I have found the kindness of strangers, this group included, has helped immeasurably. #bcsm
kimwhit
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@JenniferAlhasa yes I think it's ignorance, discomfort, fear #bcsm
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Some ppl are inappropriate/awkward b/c they think they "aren't allowed" to use a little humor. But sensitive use of humor helpful #bcsm
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@Brandie185 Girlfriend, that's so true and I can't RT on stupid tweet chat but yes, SPOT ON abt the TV show docs. LOVE U! #bcsm
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RT @Brandie185: @JenniferAlhasa I agree. Which is why I usually just smile and nod to people. I think they mean well. #bcsm
drattai
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RT @Brandie185: @JenniferAlhasa I agree. Which is why I usually just smile and nod to people. I think they mean well. #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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"You'll look back on those as some of life's little bumps." Little? They weren't that little! #BCSM
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Intelligence does not exist in a degree. Common sense is a rare sense, that's why ignorance speaks through stupid tones #bcsm
stales
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Another favorite stupid cancer comment: "Do you have unresolved anger issues? I hear that causes cancer?" #bcsm
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A1 The medical segments & headlines are the WORST! Eat broccoli, soy, green tea, etc. Makes people think you must have caused it. #bcsm
stales
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RT @JediPD: Intelligence does not exist in a degree. Common sense is a rare sense, thats why ignorance speaks through stupid tones #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Kindness far exceeds stupidity. RT @yvonnewatterson: I have found the kindness of strangers this group included helped immeasurably. #BCSM
Pinkribbonwendi
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The discussion tonight in #bcsm is 1/2 making me laugh, 1/2 pissing me off! LOL #CancerSucks #ThingsPeopleSayToCancerPatients
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@rsm2800 YES! But if they would just let us lead for a second... so many times I was comforting those around me. #bcsm
stales
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@chemobrainfog log out and log back into tweet chat to get the RT function back. #bcsm
drattai
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MT @rsm2800 Some are inappropriate b/c they think they "aren't allowed" to use a little humor. But sensitive use of humor helpful #bcsm
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RT @stales: Okay, tonight we're talking about "The Cancer Conversation" AKA --> People Say the Darnest Things!! #bcsm
brandie185
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Oh, I forgot, some1 told me picture the cancer as a baby & imagine rocking it and singing lullabies to it. It would go away then. #bcsm
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@BCSisterhood For sure! Always good to inform them about what might be better to say (like nothing in many cases!) #BCSM
drattai
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oh, my RT @stales Another favorite stupid cancer comment: "Do you have unresolved anger issues? I hear that causes cancer?" #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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I heard that one not long ago. People just don't think! RT@stales "Do you have unresolved anger issues? I hear that causes cancer?" #BCSM
miamicrime
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RT @stales: Another favorite stupid cancer comment: "Do you have unresolved anger issues? I hear that causes cancer?" #bcsm
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@Pinkribbonwendi I agree! I said that in the beginning. I KNEW it would be like that. PISSED OFF or LAUGHING! #bcsm
abhuret
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Common sense isn't! MT @stales: MT @JediPD: Intelligence doesn't exist in a degree. that's why ignorance speaks through stupid tones #bcsm
wendy_nielsen
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RT @BCSisterhood: "You'll look back on those as some of life's little bumps." Little? They weren't that little! #BCSM
brandie185
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Oh my fav: "Chemo is just a big money maker. Pay this guy 5000 a month and he'll heal you naturally!" Oh, cause that's cheaper! #bcsm
stales
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q1: And more wisdom: "Green smoothies cure cancer", "Pharma has 'the cure' but they're sitting on it just to make more money" #bcsm
JenniferAlhasa
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♥ RT @drattai: RT @Brandie185: @JenniferAlhasa I agree. Which is why I usually just smile and nod to people. I think they mean well. #bcsm
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I love you. Thanks!! RT @stales: @chemobrainfog log out and log back into tweet chat to get the RT function back. #bcsm
wendy_nielsen
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I got "it's all in God's plan" a lot. And "if Lance Armstrong can do it, so can you." Ugh! #BCSM
yvonnewatterson
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Cancer confounds people, I think. But when people know better, they really do better so we need to keep educating families & friends. #bcsm
stales
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RT @Pinkribbonwendi: The discussion is 1/2 making me laugh, 1/2 pissing me off! LOL #CancerSucks #ThingsPeopleSayToCancerPatients #bcsm
rsm2800
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@chemobrainfog Agree. I had a 19 year old pt (not breast ca) who was more mature than his parents & did most of the comforting #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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"You have too much stress in your life" #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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It makes me crazy when people call me a cancer "victim." None of this group has a victim mentality, that's for sure. #BCSM
abhuret
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A1 And none of the comments are helpful b/c aside from those w BRCA, no one truly knows what caused it and that's all we want to know! #bcsm
feistybluegecko
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anger causes cancer? or cancer causes anger? hmmm i know which resonates more with me!!! #bcsm
brandie185
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RT @Pinkribbonwendi: The discussion is 1/2 making me laugh, 1/2 pissing me off! LOL #CancerSucks #ThingsPeopleSayToCancerPatients #bcsm
JenniferAlhasa
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Amen to that! RT @yvonnewatterson: ...when people know better, they really do better so we need to keep educating families & friends. #BCSM
miamicrime
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#bcsm A paralegal and a makeup artist said i had to consume a fruit called Guanabana obsessively
drattai
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RT @BCSisterhood It makes me crazy when people call me a cancer "victim." None of this group has a victim mentality, that's for sure. #bcsm
nancyspoint
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RT @yvonnewatterson: Cancer confounds people, I think.when people know better, they do better so we need to keep educating #bcsm
teamr0xy
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Friends often joked about awesome boob job I would gain, which I have yet to get it. I've educated them well since then. #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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RT @rsm2800: @chemobrainfog Agree. I had a 19 year old pt (not breast ca) who was more mature than his parents & did most comforting #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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"God never gives us more than we can handle. You have strong shoulders" Umm, I have a stronger fist! #bcsm
LynneFavreau
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Lady trashes money grubbing pharma then relates her alternative compounds regamine at a cost of $14,000.yr !? I'll stick w/chemo. #bcsm
stales
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q1: brilliant piece of work from a social worker: "Now that you're done with treatment, what's next for you? Climbing Everest?" #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@Wendy_Nielsen I don't believe God micro-manages our lives, although we can use adversity to learn from them. #BCSM
brandie185
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"Just stay positive and it will be fine." Oh, ok. I didn't know positive attitude was a known cure. #bcsm
teamr0xy
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@miamicrime No more amazing than you! We are all #strongwomen. #bcsm
Pinkribbonwendi
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@stales TY for the hash tag. I keep forgetting! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Here's another goodie: "Cancer is a gift" #bcsm
JenniferAlhasa
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Here's to shining the light! RT @kimwhit: @JenniferAlhasa yes I think it's ignorance, discomfort, fear #bcsm
abhuret
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How about 'It will make you a better person' or 'it's a gift'. I'm sorry ... last I checked, Nordstrom wasn't accepting returns for BC #bcsm
brandie185
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@chemobrainfog If cancer is a gift, I want the receipt so I can return it =) #bcsm
wendy_nielsen
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@BCSisterhood the worst was that "God gave me cancer on purpose." #BCSM
drattai
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@stales so did you ever get to Everest?! I would think getting back to life would be more than an accomplishment enough! Jeez. #bcsm
ISophia3
RT @stales: Another favorite stupid cancer comment: "Do you have unresolved anger issues? I hear that causes cancer?" #bcsm
jedipd
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Allow me to add one: "They have a cure but they just want to poison us and make money" (Conspiracy Theory #1) #bcsm
nancyspoint
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"the most impt thing is to stay positive." that one's hurtful. #bcsm
brandie185
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It's only hair! I have to bite my tongue from saying, oh, well, if it's only hair, shave yours off too =) #bcsm
teamr0xy
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How about this one: If anyone can handle this, it would be you. #bcsm
drattai
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@Pinkribbonwendi if you log into tweet chat it will add the hashtag automatically #bcsm
kimwhit
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can offer a "what not to say" list - so many of them http://t.co/kSTyYNKP #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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I agree! RT @Brandie185: @chemobrainfog If cancer is a gift, I want the receipt so I can return it =) #bcsm
rsm2800
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@BCSisterhood Re "victim" I was at a press conference once announcing cancer legislation w/ a state governor… #bcsm
brandie185
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@TeamR0XY Right. And it sounds like a compliment, and yet, it's not. #bcsm
abhuret
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@chemobrainfog you are officially freaking me out --- just tweeted the 'gift' comment! lol! XO #bcsm
jenniegrimes
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RT @Brandie185: @chemobrainfog If cancer is a gift, I want the receipt so I can return it =) #bcsm
Pinkribbonwendi
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Amen! RT @chemobrainfog: "God never gives us more than we can handle. You have strong shoulders" Umm, I have a stronger fist! #bcsm
drattai
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if it were only that simple RT @NancysPoint "the most impt thing is to stay positive." that one's hurtful. #bcsm
stales
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More q1 recaps and wisdom: "Cancer is the gift that keeps on giving" "You need to stay positive" "You're getting a free boob job" #bcsm
dianeradfordmd
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Horrible! @Wendy_Nielsen @BCSisterhood the worst was that "God gave me cancer on purpose." #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@ABHuret haha! #bcsm
rsm2800
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…who said he was "SO glad he could meet the cancer victims here." This was before he got recalled, ahem #bcsm
abhuret
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@Brandie185 @chemobrainfog Nordstrom isn't accepting returns or I certainly would have exchanged it for a pair of hot stilettos! #BCSM
trudeauhern
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@BCSisterhood I agree!!! It too bad that we lack a language for the anything other than Victim or Survivor. #BCSM
Pinkribbonwendi
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Good one! RT @Brandie185: It's only hair! I have to bite my tongue from saying, oh, well, if it's only hair, shave yours off too =) #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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RT@stales "Cancer is the gift that keeps on giving" "You need to stay positive" "You're getting a free boob job" #bcsm #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@stales You are gonna need two hours to recap Q1. #bcsm
stales
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@DrAttai honestly! I told SW that all I wanted was a NAP. I wasn't climbing any mountains. I just got done w/ chemo - that was enuf #bcsm
cancer_why_me
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@DrAttai @BCSisterhood #bcsm No victim here for darn sure!!! Excellent point! We are the front lines to help others!
bcsisterhood
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@rsm2800 Glad to hear he "got" justice for that remark. #BCSM
stales
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epic. RT @TeamR0XY: How about this one: If anyone can handle this, it would be you. #bcsm
brandie185
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Snort. My "free" boob job cost so much that I hit max out of pocket medical expenses for my insurance last year. #bcsm
Pinkribbonwendi
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RT @chemobrainfog: I agree! RT @Brandie185: @chemobrainfog If cancer is a gift, I want the receipt so I can return it =) #bcsm
yvonnewatterson
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I hate cancer; it's not a gift. Another of life's supreme ironies is that were it not for cancer, I wouldn't be in this company. #bcsm #bcsm
drattai
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@stales naps are good! #bcsm
abhuret
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That whole 'positivity' thing makes my blood boil ... so our loved ones who died weren't positive enough? Don't get me started -- #bcsm
melee_me
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RT @chemobrainfog: I agree! RT @Brandie185: @chemobrainfog If cancer is a gift, I want the receipt so I can return it =) #bcsm
SeattleMamaDoc
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Great insight & wisdom from women streaming live right now with #bcsm hashtag.
LynneFavreau
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I really hated being told what a wonderful role model I was. Poster child for stoisism-NOT. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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YES! RT @Cancer_Why_Me: @DrAttai @BCSisterhood No victim here for darn sure!!! Excellent point! We r the front lines to help others! #bcsm
brandie185
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I also dislike it when people say <so and so> lost his/her battle with cancer. Um. No. They didn't lose. It's not a win/lose thing. #bcsm
stales
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@chemobrainfog we might not even get to Q2 tonight! this crew is rolling! #bcsm
rsm2800
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And a few rogue Y chromosomes RT @SeattleMamaDoc: Great insight & wisdom from women streaming live right now with #bcsm hashtag.
abhuret
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YES! MT @yvonnewatterson: its not a gift. Another of lifes supreme ironies is that were it not for BC, I wouldnt be in this company #bcsm
stales
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@SeattleMamaDoc Thank you! Hope you are doing well :-) #bcsm
drattai
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we have to get to the comeback lines!! RT @stales: @chemobrainfog we might not even get to Q2 tonight! this crew is rolling! #bcsm
miamicrime
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#bcsm I think people first want to figure what I did so that they can avoid it and then they want to believe that there is a magical cure
bcsisterhood
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People don't intend to come off as stupid, they're just uneducated & haven't walked the cancer path or aren't thinking. #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@stales haha! We need to come up with the snappy ANSWERS to the common questions! #bcsm
rsm2800
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RT @chemobrainfog: @stales haha! We need to come up with the snappy ANSWERS to the common questions! #bcsm
brandie185
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Some beautiful things may come from cancer (i.e. being a part of this amazing group) but I will never say cancer is a gift. Ever. #bcsm
nancyspoint
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@Brandie185 I'm posting on that tomorrow...all the battle metaphors. hate em. #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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Yes!RT @Brandie185 I also dislike when people say <so and so> lost battle with cancer. No. They didnt lose. Its not a win/lose thing. #bcsm
stales
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RT @Brandie185 I also dislike it when people say <so and so> lost his/her battle w/ cancer. Um No. They didnt lose. Its not a win/lose #bcsm
RadioKC
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RT @stales: Another favorite stupid cancer comment: "Do you have unresolved anger issues? I hear that causes cancer?" #bcsm
ISophia3
RT @stales: epic. RT @TeamR0XY: How about this one: If anyone can handle this, it would be you. #bcsm
stales
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Okay --- Q2: Let’s develop a list of #Snappy Survivor replies!!! #bcsm
abhuret
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@DrAttai The comeback lines that we don't have the audacity to say or the public ones? ; ) #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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ugh RT @miamicrime: people want to figure what I did so that they can avoid it and then they want to believe there is a magical cure #bcsm
drattai
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@DrGhaheri join our chat! the cancer conversation - stuff people say...#bcsm
SeattleMamaDoc
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:-) RT @rsm2800: And a few rogue Y chromosomes --Great insight & wisdom from women streaming live right now with #bcsm hashtag.
bcsisterhood
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For cruel women w/flat chests you could say, "So when's your breast reconstruction surgery?" @chemobrainfog: @stales #BCSM
stales
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q2: When someone says to newly diagnosed person: "My <fill in the blank> had your cancer and died" What do you say?? Make 'em snappy #bcsm
drattai
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we want it all!! RT @ABHuret: @DrAttai The comeback lines that we dont have the audacity to say or the public ones? ; ) #bcsm
feistybluegecko
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the comeback lines are really difficult - these comments stem from so many different things, fear, misinformation, misplaced caring.. #bcsm
rsm2800
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& scared it could be them MT @BCSisterhood People don't intend to come off as stupid, just uneducated & haven't walked the cancer path #BCSM
stales
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let it RIP! RT @ABHuret: @DrAttai The comeback lines that we dont have the audacity to say or the public ones? ; ) #bcsm
kimwhit
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i'm reminded of "sh*t girls say to girls with breast cancer" http://t.co/1aT8DhKo #bcsm
yvonnewatterson
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Oh yes, please. I need to carry a list of come-back lines in my purse. Every day. #bcsm
msgreene
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#bcsm @Social*Fly Positivity can't be drummed up. Some of us just knew Breast Cancer wasn't going to win. No judgement for others!
feistybluegecko
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so the comeback lines have to gel with where the comments come from, the same words from different mouths mean different things #bcsm
hnh911
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@BCSisterhood "God only gives us what we can handle" #BCSM
teamr0xy
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Funniest was while dining out, random woman asked what I had going on w/my hair (um...bald). I say just cancer. Her mouth drops. #bcsm
abhuret
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The 'language' of cancer needs a makeover. Victim, battle, fight, brave, etc. To be honest, I don't exactly like the word 'Survivor'. #bcsm
drattai
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@SeattleMamaDoc thanks for the shout-out! #bcsm
brandie185
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Comebacks ... I'd rarely ever give one. Unless I knew the person said something stupid to be an ass purposefully. #bcsm
nancyspoint
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agree.RT @feistybluegecko comeback lines are really difficult the comments stem from many different things,misinformation, misplaced #bcsm
uvmer
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RT @Brandie185 I also dislike when people say <so and so> lost battle with cancer. No. They didnt lose. Its not a win/lose thing. #bcsm
trudeauhern
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RT@NancysPoint: "the most impt thing is to stay positive." that one's hurtful. #bcsm
Pinkribbonwendi
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RT @Pinkribbonwendi: @ABHuret @DrAttai "Quit staring at my bald head or I'll rub up against you and give it to you!" #bcsm
drattai
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good point MT @feistybluegecko the comeback lines have to gel w/ where the comments come from #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Q2 when someone suggests a miracle cure--"I'll be sure to ask my doctors abt (insert stupid item) at my next visit" #bcsm
stales
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@feistybluegecko excellent points. We should consider the context in all cases! #bcsm
drattai
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MT @TeamR0XY Funniest was dining out, random woman asked what I had going on w/my hair (um..bald). I say just cancer. Her mouth drops. #bcsm
kimwhit
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old but useful? http://t.co/RInP2hdh #bcsm
nancyspoint
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yes RT @DrAttai: good point MT @feistybluegecko the comeback lines have to gel w/ where the comments come from #bcsm
drattai
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@TeamR0XY sometimes the blunt truth is the best response #bcsm
LynneFavreau
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Who was clear headed enough comeback lines? I just walk away on account of my F*&* You directness. #bcsm
dianeradfordmd
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@ABHuret I think in this very forum the word surthrivor was used, which I think is a great word #bcsm
brandie185
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This is my funny bald come-back ;-) http://t.co/cRSdRBRk {That I never actually said & was inspired by awesome twitter friends} #bcsm
teamr0xy
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@BCSisterhood This is why I did my best to educate family & friends. I was open & responded to all questions/comments. #bcsm
stales
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@kimwhit hey there! thanks for stopping by. #bcsm
ISophia3
RT @stales: let it RIP! RT @ABHuret: @DrAttai The comeback lines that we dont have the audacity to say or the public ones? ; ) #bcsm
abhuret
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A2 Hero? Brave? No ... I'm not in Afghanistan risking my life to defend our liberties. THOSE men and women are heroes, not me. #bcsm
adamslisa
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I used to just be angry when ppl gave religious reasons for my cancer. I then started saying "Do you believe that? Because I don't." #bcsm
stales
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My worst comeback line right after double mastectomy: Coworker: "What happened to you chest?" Me: "What happened to your face?!" #bcsm
kimtankerous
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Seems like unless one refers to #iloveboobies, @KeepABreast won't retweet/address issues vital to breast cancer survivor community #bcsm
nancyspoint
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sometimes it's perfectly fine to say that comment was hurtful (or inappropriate or whatever) just like i told my students!! (sorry) #bcsm
cancer_why_me
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#bcsm The 1 that gets me is, "I'm sooooo sorry!" All drawn out with emotion. Really?? What are U sorry for? They never know how 2 answer.
drattai
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@Brandie185 awesome! #bcsm
kimwhit
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@stales I am always late - chromosome I believe #bcsm
nancyspoint
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@AdamsLisa hi lisa. #bcsm
drattai
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@stales I assume you two don't talk any more! #bcsm
abhuret
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@dianeradfordmd I think I saw that at one point. I do like that. Survivor makes me sad because it's dismissive of people who die. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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I did a video for @BreastCancerDr http://t.co/8gX7Lfwv #bcsm
miamicrime
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#bcsm A2: doctors are not evil. The pharmaceutical companies are not conspiring against me. And no one is hiding the cure for cancer.
seattle_single
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#BCSM Q2 Good resource of what not to say and what to say to someone with breast cancer http://t.co/5uWJ701g via @Caring
kimwhit
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RT @NancysPoint: sometimes its perfectly fine to say comment was hurtful (or inappropriate or whatever) #bcsm
brandie185
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#BCSM A2: When people try to give me reasons for my cancer I say "I've learned two things during this. 1. You can do everything right ...
adamslisa
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Hi to the #bcsm crew! Joining for last portion. Nice to see you.
stales
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@DrAttai hee hee. nope, we laugh about it now. it was an educational moment for us both. :-) #bcsm
brandie185
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#bcsm and still get cancer. And 2. You can do everything wrong and not get cancer" Most people get it and then agree.
chemobrainfog
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@AdamsLisa Love your blog! #bcsm
jedipd
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True on both counts RT @rsm2800: & scared it could be them MT @BCSisterhood People don't intend to come off as stupid, just uneducated #BCSM
stales
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@AdamsLisa good evening! I still owe you an email. still on vacation, will get back soon. #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@AdamsLisa Hi Lisa! Great to see you here. #BCSM
abhuret
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@AdamsLisa *waving* Hi Lisa! #bcsm
drattai
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@AdamsLisa Hi Lisa! We're talking about things people say... and some comeback lines #bcsm
kimwhit
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@chemobrainfog AM, this is wonderful, thanks #bcsm
msgreene
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@Social*Fly I'm with you. I don't like "survivor" or "in remission". What terms do you all use to describe yourselves? #bcsm
adamslisa
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Always frustrating when ppl say, "Oh, I'm sure it's nothing" (before diag confirmed)&"I just know you'll be fine." Neither fact-based #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@kimwhit Thanks :) #bcsm
abhuret
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@MsGreene @abhuret NED is the clinical term, but it doesn't really have meaning outside of this circle #BCSM
drattai
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@chemobrainfog great advice! #bcsm
mgaile
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LOL! RT @stales: My worst comeback line after double mast: Coworker: "What happened to your chest?" Me: "What happened to your face?" #bcsm
adamslisa
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I always said, "Well, we like to hope that's the case (that things will be okay), but we really don't know, now, do we?" #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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As in do you have a crystal ball? @AdamsLisa "I just know you'll be fine." #BCSM
feistybluegecko
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yes, the "oh you'll be fine" about monitoring checks really gets me - that is the whole point of the checks!!! i might NOT be fine #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@DrAttai :) thx! #bcsm
jackiefox12
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@uvmer @Brandie185 if you havent given up, you haven't lost. New tattoo on friend's daughter's foot the day of Pam's funeral. #bcsm
stales
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@mgaile it wasn't one of my better moments! #bcsm
LynneFavreau
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6 months out of treatment-I say I had cancer/I was treated for cancer. #bcsm
msgreene
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@AdamsLisa I had a "friend" tell me my cancer was caused by my sin. That was when she thought I was dying. Wonder what she thinks now? #bcsm
cascadia
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RT #BCSM 6 Things Not to Say and to Say to Someone With Breast Cancer - via @caring
miamicrime
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#bcsm A2: i respect your religious believes. Please respect mine! (I have never actually said it. I usually just listen and smile).
chemobrainfog
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@AdamsLisa Good ANSWER! #bcsm
dr_dana
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@ABHuret Do you have a preference or good idea for better terms? #bcsm
kimwhit
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"I Can't Believe You Just Said That!" http://t.co/6tVjbnTd #bcsm
feistybluegecko
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and the "don't worry" advice? Don't worry????? How can you not worry after hearing the blimming cancer words?!? #bcsm
drattai
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RT @BCSisterhood As in do you have a crystal ball? @AdamsLisa "I just know you'll be fine." #bcsm
jackiefox12
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Just got here but wow this looks AWESOME #bcsm
abhuret
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We've all shared 'the fear' here, so it's tough when people comment, "well you're fine now, right?" #dirtylittlesecretofBC #bcsm
heatherwgaona
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@AdamsLisa yes to being realistic! You can admit unknown and still be an optimist. #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Is she still your friend? @AdamsLisa I had a "friend" tell me my cancer was caused by my sin. That was when she thought I was dying. #BCSM
talkabouthealth
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Yes, amazing chat! RT @jackiefox12: Just got here but wow this looks AWESOME #bcsm
rsm2800
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Good answer RT @heatherwgaona: @AdamsLisa yes to being realistic! You can admit unknown and still be an optimist. #bcsm
drattai
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@jackiefox12 great to see you, Jackie #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@jackiefox12 Waving to you!!! #BCSM
abhuret
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@Dr_Dana I continue to grapple with that ... I use the "S" word as a default, but it truly makes me cringe and I don't like the label #bcsm
stales
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okay --- time to wrap up.... With 10 minutes left, share some thoughts on what you wish people WOULD say to those dealing with cancer #bcsm

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