#BCSM transcript

Healthcare Social Media Transcript

From: Mon Jul 16 18:00:00 PDT 2012
To: Mon Jul 16 19:15:00 PDT 2012

What is #BCSM? Who were the influencers during this time period? #BCSM analytics


Healthcare Conference  - Healthcare Tweet Chats  -  Healthcare Analytics

drbeckerschutte
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@regrounding I am so glad that it's useful. #bcsm
jackiefox12
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@DrBeckerSchutte thank you I will miss you too! Will eagerly await the transcript. #bcsm
drattai
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RT @stales: its almost #bcsm time #bcsm
stales
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It's time for #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Hi everyone!!!! I'm going to need some help on my blog after or tomorrow. Been away 4 hours & I see an issue over bikini march #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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@itsthebunk Sorry to hear that you're busy. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Keep it filed in your brains please and come help when we are done here!!! #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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Hooray!! RT @stales: Its time for #bcsm
stales
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Welcome everyone! Tonight, we're talking about survivor's guilt! @jodyms is on vacation tonight. @drattai is co-moderating with me! #bcsm
stales
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Welcome our special guest, @DrBeckerSchutte !! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@itsthebunk Will MISS you Liza! And you too @jackiefox12!! #bcsm
regrounding
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Oh good god! RT @chemobrainfog: Hi everyone Im going to need some help on my blog after or tomorrow. I see an issue over bikini march #bcsm
drattai
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Hello everyone - thanks so much for joining us and we're honored to have @DrBeckerSchutte with us tonight #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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*waving hi* So excited to spend the hour with you. I've been missing you all with my crazy summer schedule. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@stales FYI-I have baby cheese cake AND oatmeal cookies. Big survivor guilt party going on here! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Hi ANN!!! So glad you are here tonight! RT @stales: Welcome our special guest, @DrBeckerSchutte !! #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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Serious food. RT @chemobrainfog: @stales FYI-I have baby cheese cake AND oatmeal cookies. Big survivor guilt party going on here! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Guess in those 4 hours I was "gone" too because I don't know what "bikini march" is. @regrounding @chemobrainfog #BCSM
stales
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Here's the link to a great post @DrBeckerSchutte wrote on survivor's guilt: http://t.co/2lgxA6Tc #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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@chemobrainfog Hi back at you--*so* glad to be here. #bcsm
stales
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Take a moment to introduce yourself and we'll get started shortly #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@DrBeckerSchutte Love that you're here! I still technically unable to comment on your blog & that makes me sad. #BCSM
stales
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Welcome everyone! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@BCSisterhood Well talk after... not even worth your time!!! Great picture on FB!! #bcsm
danceswithpens
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Well, I have finally gotten here after some instruction from Brenda/BreastCASisterhood---thanks. Hi everyone. #bcsm
abhuret
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Hi All ... 'Tardy to the Party' #bcsm
bethlgainer
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@chemobrainfog A bikini march? Oy. #BCSM
bcsmchat
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RT @drbeckerschutte: *waving hi* So excited to spend the hour with you. I've been missing you all with my crazy summer schedule. #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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Hi all, I'm Ann. I'm a psychologist practicing in Kansas City, MO, and I specialize in the space between physical & mental health. #bcsm
bethlgainer
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Beth Gainer, blogger, author, BRCA "survivor. #BCSM
bcsmchat
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@danceswithpens Hi there! #BCSM
kilani19
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Hi all! #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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@danceswithpens Glad to meet you. #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@danceswithpens Yay!!! You made it girlfriend! So glad you're here. #BCSM
bethlgainer
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@danceswithpens Hi! #BCSM
bcsmchat
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RT @drbeckerschutte: I'm a psychologist practicing in Kansas City, MO, and I specialize in the space between physical & mental health. #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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@ABHuret We're just getting rolling--not tardy at all. :-) #bcsm
danceswithpens
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intro: Donna Peach, blogger, metastatic/Stage IV breast cancer #bcsm
drattai
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RT @stales: Heres the link to a great post @DrBeckerSchutte wrote on survivors guilt: http://t.co/Nwg9VnRx #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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I'm waving to everyone as well. Brenda Coffee, blogger, advocate & BRCA survivor like Beth. #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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Ya, me too!! RT @BCSisterhood: @danceswithpens Yay!!! You made it girlfriend! So glad youre here. #bcsm
danceswithpens
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@BCSisterhood Yes, thanks to you, I'm here. Glad, too. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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SO glad you are here tonight! RT @danceswithpens: intro: Donna Peach, blogger, metastatic/Stage IV breast cancer #bcsm
abhuret
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@DrBeckerSchutte : ) Thanks! Loved your post. #bcsm
stales
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@danceswithpens Welcome Donna! #bcsm
bethlgainer
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@BCSisterhood Howdy Brenda! #BCSM
stales
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Alright --- T1, coming up! #bcsm
bethlgainer
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RT @chemobrainfog: SO glad you are here tonight! RT @danceswithpens: intro: Donna Peach, blogger, metastatic/Stage IV breast cancer #BCSM
drbeckerschutte
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@ABHuret So glad to hear that you liked it. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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Hi Abbey... Miss you!! RT @ABHuret: @DrBeckerSchutte : ) Thanks! Loved your post. #bcsm
drattai
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@danceswithpens welcome to the chat - and everyone else who is a first-timer #bcsm
drattai
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@danceswithpens you will soon see this is an amazing group #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@Bethlgainer Hi sweet lady:) So happy we're here. #BCSM
stales
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I'm going to pose this question to @DrBeckerSchutte and then we can all chime in after she answers. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@stales fingers are all ready to roll... Shoot!! #bcsm
jorunkjones
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Hi, a little late but I wanted to join all my special friends. I'm a clinical pharmacist assisting @Talkabouthealth #bcsm
danceswithpens
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@stales TY Happy to be here. Kept trying to chat via Twitter coz no knowledge of TweetChat formerly. #bcsm
stales
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T1: @DrBeckerSchutte How do you define survivor's guilt? I think this is an emotion that we all struggle with... #bcsm
nursefriendly
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Hello Everyone, Andrew Lopez, RN from #NewJersey, I support #AmandaTrujillo :) #nurse, #entrepreneur #socialmedia #enthusiast #bcsm
abhuret
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@chemobrainfog @stales Desserts galore but no #joshlapdance? Lol! ; ) #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@jorunkjones HIIIIII!!!!! bug hugs!! #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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RT @stales: T1: @DrBeckerSchutte How do you define survivors guilt? I think this is an emotion that we all struggle with... #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@danceswithpens http://t.co/Q845kL6W try signing in there. It will be easier!! #bcsm
regrounding
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@danceswithpens Just go to http://t.co/Q6uYlCZ6 and sign in with your twitter ID. Much easier! and welcome!! #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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where is that MAN??? RT @ABHuret: @chemobrainfog @stales Desserts galore but no #joshlapdance? Lol! ; ) #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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Hey there Andrew. We've missed you. @nursefriendly #BCSM
drbeckerschutte
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I define survivor's guilt as the feeling of "why me" that we experience when we meet a health landmark that others don't reach. #bcsm
talkabouthealth
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Hi Everyone! Murray here :) Missed everyone since last week! #bcsm
jorunkjones
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Hugs to all of our wonderful survivors. #bcsm
chemobrainfog
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@regrounding I love you. We do think so much alike it's scary! #bcsm
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RT @mtmdphd: Wt loss lowers sex hormones; risk reduction through lower exposure to #BreastCancer biomarkers http://t.co/FxBrunFq #bcsm
nursefriendly
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Thanks, spend a lot of time at #RNFMRadio Monday nights :) RT @BCSisterhood: Hey there Andrew. We've missed you. @nursefriendly #BCSM
drbeckerschutte
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I distinguish survivor's guilt from regular guilt b/c regular guilt is an appropriate response to something that has caused harm . . . #bcsm
bcsmchat
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RT @drbeckerschutte I define survivor's guilt as the "why me" we experience when we meet a health landmark that others don't reach #bcsm
stales
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RT @drbeckerschutte I define survivor's guilt as the "why me" we experience when we meet a health landmark that others don't reach #bcsm
wendy_nielsen
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A late hi from me! #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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I don't feel guilty for still being here because I can just as easily be the one who's not here next time. #BCSM
bethlgainer
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@talkabouthealth @jorunkjones: Hi there! #BCSM
wendy_nielsen
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RT @DrAttai: RT @stales: Heres the link to a great post @DrBeckerSchutte wrote on survivors guilt: http://t.co/Nwg9VnRx #bcsm
nursefriendly
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@BCSisterhood Am a big fan of @Drbeckerschutte, try to make her #eolchat every week :) Glad to see her on #BCSM, #nurseup #nursefriendly
drbeckerschutte
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. . .while survivor's guilt parallels shame-it's a bad feeling that comes from nothing you have actually done (other than live). #bcsm
stales
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte distinguish survivors guilt from regular guilt b/c reg guilt is appropriate response to something that caused harm #bcsm
nursefriendly
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RT @stales: T1: @DrBeckerSchutte How do you define survivor's guilt? I think this is an emotion that we all struggle with... #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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RT @DrAttai: RT @stales: Heres the link to a great post @DrBeckerSchutte wrote on survivors guilt: http://t.co/F5Sh8AoR #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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Yes! RT @BCSisterhood: I dont feel guilty for still being here because I can just as easily be the one whos not here next time. #bcsm
kilani19
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I see it as a moment when a sufferer no longer suffers then feels bad about celebrating the accomplishments attained of "making it". #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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In a weird way, it's the inverse of the "why me" we experience after a diagnosis, when we wonder what we did wrong . . . #bcsm
jenniegrimes
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#bcsm been having a very tough time with this the last week. I am stage 4 and one of my closest stg 4 friends died last week. Guilt & fear.
stales
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte while survivors guilt parallels shame-its bad feeling that comes from nothing u've actually done, other than live #bcsm
bethlgainer
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte distinguish survivors guilt from regular guilt b/c reg guilt is appropriate response to something that caused harm #BCSM
abhuret
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A1 Like @DrBeckerSchutte's definition (and post) but it's such a gray area and not well understood by the non-inhabitants #bcsm
nursefriendly
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@stales T1 A problem in #nurses that identify, get too close to their #patients. Can hit #nurses hard when they lose #patients :( #bcsm
abhuret
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@jenniegrimes So sorry to hear that, Jennie xo #bcsm
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TY for warm welcome! Hi @Bethlgainer @DrAttai @Wendy_Nielsen @DrBeckerSchutte @stales @BCSisterhood @ChemoBrainFog @jenniegrimes #bcsm
drattai
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MT @DrBeckerSchutte it's the inverse of the "why me" we experience after a diagnosis, when we wonder what we did wrong . . . #bcsm
3lainess
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Hi! Trying to wake up across the Atlantic. Elaine, here - and I'm hitting my one year anniversary - end of chemo- this week #bcsm #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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. . . with survivor's guilt, we wonder "why me" when others who are equally deserving of health die or have more serious complications #bcsm
stales
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RT @jenniegrimes been having a very tough time w/ this the last week. I'm stage 4 and one of my closest stg 4 friends died last week. #bcsm
danceswithpens
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@stales Having stage 4 I experience survivor guilt every few weeks when another metster dies or approaches end of life. #bcsm
kilani19
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@jenniegrimes you are making it thru this. Not all will. #bcsm
bcsisterhood
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@jenniegrimes I'm sorry your friend died. This may sound corny, but it's true: She would want you to live your life with joy. #BCSM
chemobrainfog
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@jenniegrimes Big hugs and so very sorry to hear about your friend's death. This brings up guilt in me. Much love to you. #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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MT @jenniegrimes: been having a very tough time with this the last week. I am stage 4 and one of my close stg 4 friends died last week #bcsm
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RT @danceswithpens: Having stage 4 I experience survivor guilt every few weeks when another metster dies or approaches end of life. #bcsm
stales
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RT @danceswithpens: Having stage 4 I experience survivor guilt every few weeks when another metster dies or approaches end of life. #bcsm
lgg1
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Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. It's guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #bcsm
drbeckerschutte
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@jenniegrimes Guilt and fear are so deeply intertwined. Along with guilt and grief--the toxic sludge of survivor's guilt. #bcsm
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RT @LGG1: Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. Its guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #bcsm
nursefriendly
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@DrBeckerSchutte T1 Do you feel #survivors guilt is common among surviving spouses, #partners when a loved one dies? #bcsm
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RT @drbeckerschutte In a weird way, it's the inverse of the "why me" we experience after a diagnosis, when we wonder what we did wrong #bcsm
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RT @drbeckerschutte In a weird way, it's the inverse of the "why me" we experience after a diagnosis, when we wonder what we did wrong #bcsm
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@danceswithpens @stales Donna, you're struggling to cope w/treatment & keep moving forward. You don't have room for guilt. #BCSM
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@jenniegrimes I'm sorry to hear about ur friend's death. I know what it's like to lose a great friend to cancer. #BCSM
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@jenniegrimes HUGS...that is so very difficult!! #bcsm
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@danceswithpens Yes, I can imagine that this must be a nearly constant companion. Sending good thoughts. #bcsm
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one of my friends died the end of June and I still nurse this thought that I should have done something to save or comfort her more #bcsm
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RT@jenniegrimes Guilt and fear are so deeply intertwined. Along with guilt and grief--the toxic sludge of survivors guilt. #BCSM
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RT @3lainess: Hi! Trying to wake up across the Atlantic. Elaine, here - and I'm hitting my 1 yr anniversary - end of chemo- this week #bcsm
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RT @3lainess: Hi! Trying to wake up across the Atlantic. Elaine, here - and I'm hitting my 1 yr anniversary - end of chemo- this week #bcsm
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Absolutely. RT @nursefriendly: T1 Do you feel #survivors guilt is common among surviving spouses, #partners when a loved one dies? #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte T1 Have often noticed spouses would tell me that they would "exchange places" with the deceased if they could. #bcsm
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hugs 2U RT @danceswithpens: Having stage 4 experience survivor guilt very few wks when another metster dies or approaches end of life. #bcsm
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RT @BCSisterhood: I don't feel guilty for still being here because I can just as easily be the one who's not here next time. #BCSM
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Congrats! RT @3lainess: Hi! Elaine, here - and Im hitting my one year anniversary - end of chemo- this week #bcsm #bcsm
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I think it is a very important emotion to acknowledge and voice to those around you. This is not a feeling to bottle up. #bcsm
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yes it is... RT @LGG1: Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. Its guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #bcsm
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@danceswithpens Ur only human, and u did the best u could. That's more than some ppl do. #BCSM
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RT @kilani19: I think it is a very important emotion to acknowledge and voice to those around you. This is not a feeling to bottle up. #bcsm
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@nursefriendly I think that, esp w/new grief, being gone seems less paionful. #bcsm
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@danceswithpens You know you couldn't have done anything that would have saved her. Cut yourself some grace & let go of that pain. #BCSM
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RT @kilani19: I think it is a very important emotion to acknowledge and voice to those around you. This is not a feeling to bottle up. #bcsm
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Hi #bcsm folks. Let's purge the guilt and Live!
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@danceswithpens Oh, Donna. Your logical mind knows you couldn't change anything but it has to hurt terribly. Helplessness. #bcsm
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Sorry, I'm having typing deficiency tonight. #bcsm
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RT @kilani19: I think it is a very important emotion to acknowledge and voice to those around you. This is not a feeling to bottle up. #bcsm
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RT @JediPD: Hi #bcsm folks. Lets purge the guilt and Live! #BCSM
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RT @jenniegrimes: #bcsm been having a very tough time with this the last week. I am stage 4 and one of my closest stg 4 friends died las ...
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RT @stales RT @LGG1: Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. Its guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #BCSM
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@kilani19 Absolutely--getting this out in the open is critical. It helps reduce the shame & isolation. #bcsm
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Yes! RT @kilani19 I think it is very important emotion to acknowledge & voice to those around you. This is not a feeling to bottle up. #bcsm
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Well said.RT @chemobrainfog: Oh, Donna. Your logical mind knows you couldnt change anything but it has to hurt terribly. Helplessness. #bcsm
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Yes sir to that one, but it's easier said than done for many. RT @JediPD: Hi #bcsm folks. Lets purge the guilt and Live! #BCSM
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @kilani19 Absolutely--getting this out in the open is critical. It helps reduce the shame & isolation. #bcsm
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@nursefriendly @drbeckerschutte I see this a lot too. That's tough and very sad. But the best thing is there are resources for them. #bcsm
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RT @LGG1: Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. Its guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #BCSM
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yes! RT @Bethlgainer: RT @JediPD: Hi #bcsm folks. Lets purge the guilt and Live! #bcsm
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@JediPD HI!! welcome! #bcsm
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I think talking is part of how we accomplish that goal. RT @JediPD: Hi #bcsm folks. Lets purge the guilt and Live! #bcsm
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Stage 4 constantly exposes us to death of our counterparts. It is a mix of guilt and fear of the unknown. When will it be my turn. #bcsm
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RT @LGG1: Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. It's guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #bcsm
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That's part of my job.RT @kilani19: I see this a lot too. Thats tough and very sad. But the best thing is there are resources for them #bcsm
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And being HERE! RT @DrBeckerSchutte: I think talking is part of how we accomplish that goal. RT @JediPD: Lets purge the guilt & Live! #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte T1a: Does the intensity of survivor's guilt increase if close friends or relatives experience a similar disgnosis?? #bcsm
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A part of guilt also resides in being glad to have lived. And there's a feeling of selfishness there. #BCSM
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@danceswithpens Because you don't have the luxury of pretending that you are immortal. #bcsm
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@stales: yes! RT @Bethlgainer: RT @JediPD: Hi #bcsm folks. Lets purge the guilt and Live! #bcsm” get busy living!
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@Bethlgainer I agree. My feelings of guilt are more extreme sorrow over the loss with the wish that i could hug my friend. #bcsm
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oh man :-( RT @danceswithpens: Stage 4 exposes us to death of our counterparts -mix of guilt & fear of the unknown. When is my turn. #bcsm
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absolutely! RT @Bethlgainer: A part of guilt also resides in being glad to have lived. And theres a feeling of selfishness there. #bcsm
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Agree. RT @Bethlgainer: A part of guilt also resides in being glad to have lived. And theres a feeling of selfishness there. #bcsm
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That's a tough one.RT @Bethlgainer: A part of guilt also resides in being glad to have lived-And theres a feeling of selfishness there #bcsm
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HUGS RT @danceswithpens: St 4 constantly exposes 2 death of our counterparts. mix of guilt & fear of the unknown. When will b my turn. #bcsm
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RT @stales: @DrBeckerSchutte T1a Does intensity of survivors guilt increase if close friends/relatives experience a similar diagnosis #bcsm
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RT @kilani19: I think it is a very important emotion to acknowledge and voice to those around you. This is not a feeling to bottle up. #bcsm
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RT @LGG1: Survivors guilt is such a confused emotion. Its guilt but mixed with inexpressible sadness over loss. #BCSM
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@DrBeckerSchutte Correct. We know that CA is going to take us; uncertainty is the worst. We don't know when we'll turn that corner. #bcsm
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@stales @drbeckerschutte sure! An even closer person to the survivor is now suffering. Very difficult situation. #bcsm
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And yet, it is part of how we are wired to wish to live as long as we are able. You would want loved ones to survive-they wish for you #bcsm
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Good one! RT @barbstauff: I would say why not me when I was dx with bc, so I will say why not me as a survivor! #BCSM
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @danceswithpens Because you don't have the luxury of pretending that you are immortal. #bcsm
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And reminds us how precious ea moment is & helps make conscious decisions about HOW to live them. @danceswithpens #bcsm
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@stales @DrBeckerSchutte T1a: When a friend is diagnosed I hope to give them knowledge & comfort no one gave to me. No guilt. #BCSM
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@DrBeckerSchutte @danceswithpens this is SO perfectly said!! #bcsm
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@Bethlgainer but that's the thing is you shouldn't feel selfish over this feeling. It's real and a blessing for those who do survive #bcsm
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A1a: I think that can cut both ways. Having someone close face the same dx can create support in an odd way. If their dx is . . . #bcsm
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I think I allow others 2 dictate feelings of guilt w/things that R said (good cancer, mild chemo). Makes me feel I'm not being strong. #bcsm
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RT @regrounding: And reminds us how precious ea moment is & helps make conscious decisions about HOW to live them. @danceswithpens #bcsm
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A1 Part of it's grip is when u succeed in letting it go, even a routine appt can trigger it & u fear u took your eye off the ball. #bcsm
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also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease. #bcsm #bcsm
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@kilani19 T1 The problem is "guilt" by definition brings with it "Shame" & "Stigma" not something people are quick to disclose #bcsm
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RT @regrounding: And reminds us how precious ea moment is & helps make conscious decisions about HOW to live them. @danceswithpens #BCSM
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@DrAttai T1a Yes, I think it is worse when the one who dances into the light was someone with whom you shared a similar journey. #bcsm
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Yes! RT @Bethlgainer: Good one! RT @barbstauff: I would say why not me when I was dx with bc, so I will say why not me as a survivor! #BCSM
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#bcsm thanks everyone. Just a never-ending fear of reoccurrence and once the other shoe does drop you can only wonder how long.
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. . . more severe, that has the potential to intensify guilt. #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: A1a: I think that can cut both ways. Having someone close face the same dx can create support in an odd way. #bcsm
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I agree MT @regrounding:reminds us how precious ea moment is & helps make conscious decisions about HOW to live them. @danceswithpens #bcsm
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Yes, yes, yes!!! RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease. #bcsm #bcsm
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RT @BCSisterhood: When a friend is diagnosed I hope to give them knowledge & comfort no one gave to me. No guilt. #BCSM
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@chemobrainfog No such thing, as u know, as good cancer, mild chemo. #BCSM
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How blunt are the arrows of the quiver in comparison with those of guilt. #bcsm Guilt pricks, pokes, probes and festers. Talk/Reason it out
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Yes! Espec if treatments differed MT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others. #bcsm
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Yes! Well said. RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease. #bcsm #bcsm
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@nursefriendly very true. #bcsm
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@danceswithpens @drbeckerschutte I thought I was the only one who thought like this. My DH thinks I'm nuts. #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte #BCSM same diagnosis can help but also so hard to lose them. Feels like your own funeral and path sometimes
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RT @jenniegrimes Just a never-ending fear of reoccurrence and once the other shoe does drop you can only wonder how long. #BCSM
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No-all are terrifying, high cost. RT @Bethlgainer: @chemobrainfog No such thing, as u know, as good cancer, mild chemo. #bcsm
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@danceswithpens: @DrBeckerSchutte Correct. We know that CA is going to take us; uncertainty is the worst. We don't know. EXACTLY #bcsm
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Took me long time to realize this. RT @Bethlgainer: @chemobrainfog No such thing, as u know, as good cancer, mild chemo. #bcsm
stales
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Folks - for those that deal with survivor's guilt, it's a real and sometimes intense feeling. #bcsm
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@jenniegrimes It's normal to have fears of recurrence. It sucks, but it is a valid fear. #BCSM
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Pulls all fear.RT @jenniegrimes: same diagnosis can help but also so hard to lose them. Feels like your own funeral and path sometimes #bcsm
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RT @JediPD: How blunt are the arrows of the quiver in comparison w/those of guilt. Guilt pricks, pokes, probes and festers. t #BCSM
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @kilani19 Absolutely--getting this out in the open is critical. It helps reduce the shame & isolation. #bcsm
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okay - moving to T2! great responses to define survivor's guilt! #bcsm
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RT @stales: Folks - for those that deal with survivors guilt, its a real and sometimes intense feeling. #bcsm
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RT @Bethlgainer: @jenniegrimes Its normal to have fears of recurrence. It sucks, but it is a valid fear. #bcsm
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RT @jenniegrimes Just a never-ending fear of reoccurrence and once the other shoe does drop you can only wonder how long. #bcsm
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And that fear can up guilt. RT@danceswithpens: Correct. We know that CA is going to take us; uncertainty is the worst. We dont know. #bcsm
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T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivor's guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm
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Amen RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease. #bcsm #BCSM
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Sometimes paralyzing. RT @stales: Folks - for those that deal with survivors guilt, its a real and sometimes intense feeling. #bcsm
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RT @kilani19: “@stales: yes! RT @Bethlgainer: RT @JediPD: Hi #bcsm folks. Lets purge the guilt and Live! #bcsm” get busy living!
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RT @stales: T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivors guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm
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True RT @DrAttai: RT @stales: Folks - for those that deal with survivors guilt, its a real and sometimes intense feeling. #bcsm
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RT @stales Folks - for those that deal with survivor's guilt, it's a real and sometimes intense feeling. #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte T1 Are there any "Red Flags" or signs, symptoms we can look for, clues that "#SurvivorsGuilt" may be an issue? #bcsm
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Great question,Alicia! RT @stales: T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivors guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm
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on one hand fear of recurrence, on the other hand, worry that if you have fewer SE's, you haven't had enough tx #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: Sometimes paralyzing. RT @stales for those that deal with survivors guilt, its a real & intense feeling. #bcsm
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@jenniegrimes: #bcsm thanks everyone. Just a never-ending fear of reoccurrence and once the other ... I live in a constant state of denial
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@stales: T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivor's guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm” sounds like complicated grief - very tough.
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A2: No. Grief is a separate feeling, BUT it is part of the brew that creates survivor's guilt b/c the sadness at loss is strong. #bcsm
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RT @jedipd: How blunt are the arrows of the quiver in comparison with those of guilt. #bcsm Guilt pricks, pokes, probes and festers.
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Wow! RT @3lainess: on one hand fear of recurrence, on the other hand, worry that if you have fewer SEs, you havent had enough tx #bcsm
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RT @lgg1: Yes! Well said. RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease #bcsm
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RT @lgg1: Yes! Well said. RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease #bcsm
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@DrAttai T2 I think they are different. Guilt comes for me less often than grief over the loss of my buddies. Guilt is a smaller part. #bcsm
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At the heart, it is learning to live w unfortunate fact there are some things we are simply powerless over. That is hard to accept. #bcsm
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thank you! RT @chemobrainfog: Great question,Alicia! RT @stales: T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivors guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm
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@nursefriendly Red flags might include a strong focus on others, recurrent thoughts of "why them instead of me?" #SurvivorsGuilt #bcsm
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RT @3lainess: on one hand fear of recurrence, on the other hand, worry that if you have fewer SE's, you haven't had enough tx #bcsm
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RT @3lainess: on one hand fear of recurrence, on the other hand, worry that if you have fewer SE's, you haven't had enough tx #bcsm
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@chemobrainfog right? Like our own fight is less than someone else's. #bcsm
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T2: Grief is universal, but the feelings of guilt when a friend's diagnosed or dies is not something that's felt by all. #BCSM
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MT @DrBeckerSchutte A2 Grief is separate feeling BUT it is part of brew that creates survivors guilt b/c the sadness at loss is strong #bcsm
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So true, I never lost my hair when I was on chemo, therefore, I am still guilt ridden to even say I had chemo. I had "fraud" chemo. #bcsm
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RT @Bethlgainer: A part of guilt also resides in being glad to have lived. And there's a feeling of selfishness there. #BCSM
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morning everyone - joining you a little late and distractedly, will be in and out of the convo :) I feel the guilt for sure #bcsm
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@DrAttai T2 I think we must define our feelings carefully so we can understand them. Guilt IS different from grief and sorrow. #bcsm
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@DrAttai: RT @Bethlgainer: @jenniegrimes Its normal to have fears of recurrence. #bcsm” the problem is you don't know where it will recur
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RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease. #bcsm #bcsm
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@3lainess You do a great job of outlining the underlying anxiety that simmers after diagnosis. #bcsm
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RT @BCSisterhood: Grief is universal, but the feelings of guilt when a friend's diagnosed or dies is not something that's felt by all. #BCSM
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RT @BCSisterhood: Grief is universal, but the feelings of guilt when a friends diagnosed or dies is not something thats felt by all. #bcsm
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@feistybluegecko So happy to see you! How are the injections going? #BCSM
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MT @DrBeckerSchutte A2 Grief is separate feeling BUT it is part of brew that creates survivors guilt b/c the sadness at loss is strong #bcsm
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MT @DrBeckerSchutte A2 Grief is separate feeling BUT it is part of brew that creates survivors guilt b/c the sadness at loss is strong #bcsm
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My situation-can't really elaborate, but dont think so RT @stales T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivor's guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm
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Is that 2 say someone feeling guilty thinks her life less worthy? @Wendy_Nielsen @chemobrainfog Like our own fight is less than... #bcsm
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@feistybluegecko Hi Philippa. You are out of the hospital, yes? Big hugs into Tuesday! #bcsm
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T2: My friend who died was a mirror of myself, same age, same profession, grew up in same area of country, same type of family. #BCSM
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@BCSisterhood There is the element of people struggling to understand survivor's guilt--they expect you to be celebrating. #bcsm
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@danceswithpens good point re: defining feelings grief vs guilt but it is sometimes hard to tell the difference #bcsm
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RT @kilani19: @stales @drbeckerschutte sure! An even closer person to the survivor is now suffering. Very difficult situation. #bcsm
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@Bethlgainer @chemobrainfog yes, but I think the way we individually handle it is subjective by others. #bcsm
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@feistybluegecko so glad you could join us, Philippa! #bcsm
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T2: When she died, it was as if I had died. And our parallels fostered my survivor's guilt. #BCSM
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@abowllan #bcsm just tough to believe and have hope over the guilt. Hard to not think your path will be the same.
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@DrBeckerSchutte TY. simmering anxiety is a good description. ever present, just below surface. #bcsm
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Even the fear of recurrence itself creates guilt when everyone knows someone who has been dealt that hand. #bcsm
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@Wendy_Nielsen Good point. #BCSM
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MT @DrBeckerSchutte There is the element of people struggling to understand survivors guilt--they expect you to be celebrating. #bcsm
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but still very real for those that feel it. MT @bcsisterhood Grief is universal, but guilt when a friend's dx/dies is not felt by all. #BCSM
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I have mixed feelings over the term, "new normal." Should I feel guilty for wanting my old "normal?" #bcsm
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RT @jenniegrimes: @abowllan #bcsm just tough to believe and have hope over the guilt. Hard to not think your path will be the same. #BCSM
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RT @drattai: @danceswithpens good point re: defining feelings grief vs guilt but it is sometimes hard to tell the difference #bcsm
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I was in treatment next to a dear friend & I envied her energy. When she died and I lived, my guilt was excruciating. #bcsm
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RT @regrounding: Is that 2 say someone feeling guilty thinks her life less worthy? #bcsm
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*Waves at @fiestybluegecko* How are you feeling?? #bcsm
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Sending ((hugs)) RT @jenniegrimes: just tough to believe and have hope over the guilt. Hard to not think your path will be the same. #bcsm
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T2 I think the emotions surrounding all of this are hard to discuss for many coz we may not have had to deal a lot with sadness/grief. #bcsm
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RT @idelledavidson: I have mixed feelings over the term, "new normal." Should I feel guilty for wanting my old "normal?" #bcsm
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RT @idelledavidson: I have mixed feelings over the term, "new normal." Should I feel guilty for wanting my old "normal?" #bcsm
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thanks - yes, I am out of hospital and have had 2 days free of needles, heading back for tests again shortly to see if bloods stable.. #bcsm
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RT @abhuret: Even the fear of recurrence itself creates guilt when everyone knows someone who has been dealt that hand. #bcsm
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RT @abhuret: Even the fear of recurrence itself creates guilt when everyone knows someone who has been dealt that hand. #bcsm
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@IdelleDavidson Gr8 point. There's no real normal anyway. Each person's reality is different. #BCSM
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@IdelleDavidson I hear THAT... I want the old normal back, too! #bcsm
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@Bethlgainer When a friend dies of breast cancer, our hopes for them die just as our own fears are reborn & reconfirmed. #BCSM
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RT @IdelleDavidson I have mixed feelings over the term, "new normal." Should I feel guilty for wanting my old "normal?" #bcsm
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RT @LGG1: I was in treatment next to a dear friend & I envied her energy. When she died and I lived, my guilt was excruciating. #bcsm
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RT @3lainess: also there can be guilt in the inevitable comparison between yourself and others with disease. #bcsm #bcsm
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@jenniegrimes That is why this is so tough. You're trying to hold your own hope and acknowledge fear & grief at the same time. #bcsm
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Surviving a war (veterans) suffer similar loss of buddies and have survivors guilt. The trauma is the same #bcsm
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@BCSisterhood So true. Thank you for the wise words. #BCSM
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I don't like the term, "new normal." It's somehow very discounting. #bcsm
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+1M RT @BCSisterhood: @Bethlgainer When a friend dies our hopes for them die just as our own fears are reborn & reconfirmed. #bcsm
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I think many of us at least question worth. RT @regrounding: Is that 2 say someone feeling guilty thinks her life less worthy? #bcsm
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I find that there is a strange relationship between fear and survivor guilt - guilty I'm still here, grateful yet afraid of recurrence #bcsm
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@stales @lgg1 wow! I can feel that! #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte interesting to see that many think there is a connection between guilt, grief, and... self-worth? #bcsm
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RT @JediPD: How blunt are the arrows of the quiver in comparison with those of guilt. #bcsm Guilt pricks, pokes, probes and festers. Tal ...
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yes! RT @JediPD: Surviving a war (veterans) suffer similar loss of buddies and have survivors guilt. The trauma is the same #bcsm
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@regrounding @wendy_nielsen @chemobrainfog yes, this is something I've personally struggled with unfortunately. #bcsm
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@JediPD Yes--survivor's guilt is emblematic of a traumatic experience. #bcsm
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BINGO! MT @DrBeckerSchutte That is why this is so tough. Youre trying to hold your own hope & acknowledge fear & grief at same time. #bcsm
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@IdelleDavidson Regardless of the illness or tragedy we've endured, it's "normal" to want to be normal again. #BCSM
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RT @Wendy_Nielsen: @danceswithpens @drbeckerschutte I thought I was the only one who thought like this. My DH thinks I'm nuts. #bcsm
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@JediPD absolutely. #bcsm
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@chemobrainfog Actually, my old normal sucked in many ways. New normal has a new appreciation of life. #BCSM
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RT @stales: @DrBeckerSchutte interesting to see that many think there is a connection between guilt, grief, and... self-worth? #bcsm
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RT @jenniegrimes: @DrBeckerSchutte #BCSM same diagnosis can help but also so hard to lose them. Feels like your own funeral and path som ...
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That's what I call the "toxic sludge."MT @feistybluegecko: I find that there is a strange relationship between fear and survivor guilt #bcsm
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#bcsm Walking the tightrope of reality and hope - to balance between the two seems to be the toughest part of all.
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@DrAttai @DrBeckerSchutte That is why this is so tough. Youre trying to hold your own hope & acknowledge fear & grief at same time. #bcsm
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Is it self-worth or self-efficacy - belief you can do something, anything? #bcsm
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+1000 MT @feistybluegecko: Strange relationship betw fear & survivor guilt - guilty I'm still here, grateful yet afraid of recurrence #bcsm
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More common than you'd think RT @stales Folks - for those that deal with survivor's guilt, it's a real and sometimes intense feeling. #bcsm
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@Bethlgainer glad some good came out of something so horrible! #bcsm
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RT @jenniegrimes: #bcsm Walking the tightrope of reality and hope - to balance between the two seems to be the toughest part of all. #bcsm
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Living w/stage IV, I think survivor guilt of others is one of my big fears for them! & not just among BC survivors (ie my family) #bcsm
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#bcsm hard to have acceptance of the inevitable and still will ourselves to fight like hell.
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I just wish "cancer" wasn't in the vocab! RT @Bethlgainer: old normal sucked in many ways. New normal new appreciation of life. #bcsm
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@stales Yes. I hear the question "Why did someone so good/loving/talented/selfless/etc die when I lived?" #bcsm
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RT @nursefriendly: More common than youd think RT Folks - for those that deal with survivors guilt, its a real and intense feeling. #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte ooh toxic sludge - sums it up :) #bcsm
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@nursefriendly I work with many couples where the spouse experiences #survivor guilt enough they neglect their own health. #bcsm
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@DrAttai @drbeckerschutte keeping positive while still being there for those around you who suffer, and then go on to grieve their loss#bcsm
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T2: I feel guilty when someone does pass becuz I'm thankful it's not me, at least now. Embarrassed to admit. #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @JediPD Yes--survivors guilt is emblematic of a traumatic experience. #bcsm
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yes! RT @jenniegrimes: Walking the tightrope of reality and hope - to balance between the two seems to be the toughest part of all. #bcsm
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Yes. RT @feistybluegecko: @DrBeckerSchutte ooh toxic sludge - sums it up :) #bcsm
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RT @jenniegrimes: #bcsm hard to have acceptance of the inevitable and still will ourselves to fight like hell. #bcsm
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@regrounding That's a huge point! Our families may feel guilty that they've survived & we haven't #BCSM
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Not in my experience. RT @stales: T2: @DrBeckerSchutte Is survivor's guilt and grief the same thing? #bcsm
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MT @regrounding: Living w/stage IV, I think survivor guilt of others is one of my big fears for them! & not just among BC survivors #bcsm
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I love that analogy.. RT @feistybluegecko: @DrBeckerSchutte ooh toxic sludge - sums it up :) #bcsm
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RT @Wendy_Nielsen: T2: I feel guilty when someone does pass becuz Im thankful its not me, at least now. Embarrassed to admit. #bcsm
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RT @Wendy_Nielsen: Spot on T2: I feel guilty when someone does pass becuz Im thankful its not me, at least now. Embarrassed to admit. #bcsm
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@regrounding I think that is one of the reasons that talking about mortality is important (regardless of our health status). #bcsm
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RT @jenniegrimes: Walking the tightrope of reality and hope - to balance between the two seems to be the toughest part of all. #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte @stales I've thought this a ton. Like why didn't those outstanding people get a break? #bcsm
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MT @regrounding: Living w/stage IV, I think survivor guilt of others is one of my big fears for them! & not just among BC survivors #bcsm
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RT @stales: RT @jenniegrimes: #bcsm hard to have acceptance of the inevitable and still will ourselves to fight like hell. #BCSM
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@chemobrainfog I know. #BCSM
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me too! RT @stales: I love that analogy.. RT @feistybluegecko: @DrBeckerSchutte ooh toxic sludge - sums it up :) #bcsm
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RT @Wendy_Nielsen: @DrBeckerSchutte @stales I've thought this a ton. Like why didn't those outstanding people get a break? #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: I think that is one of the reasons that talking about mortality is important (regardless of health status). #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte @stales but more importantly why that person feels they aren't worthy of their survival! #bcsm
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MT @Wendy_Nielsen: Spot on T2: I feel guilty when someone does pass becuz Im thankful its not me at least now. Embarrassed to admit. #BCSM
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Yes, but also talking about what I want for those who love me. They will honor me by LIVING FULLY! RT @DrBeckerSchutte: #bcsm
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okay, T3 coming up! #bcsm
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@feistybluegecko well, I'm glad I'm not alone. #bcsm
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RT @kilani19: @DrBeckerSchutte @stales but more importantly why that person feels they arent worthy of their survival! #bcsm
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@Wendy_Nielsen It's a tough, tough question. Also circles back to the guilt over being happy to be alive. #bcsm
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RT @kilani19: @DrBeckerSchutte @stales but more importantly why that person feels they arent worthy of their survival! #bcsm
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@DrBeckerSchutte W stg 4 it's like when is it my turn that follows the momentary guilt of outliving another metster. #bcsm
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You are not alone, for sure! RT @Wendy_Nielsen: @feistybluegecko well, Im glad Im not alone. #bcsm
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I think it may be more complicated. RT @kilani19: but more importantly why that person feels they arent worthy of their survival! #bcsm
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RT @STrudeauH_MedFT: I work with many couples where the spouse experiences #survivor guilt enough they neglect their own health. #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @Wendy_Nielsen Its a tough, tough question. Also circles back to the guilt over being happy to be alive. #BCSM
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @Wendy_Nielsen Its a tough, tough question. Also circles back to the guilt over being happy to be alive. #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @Wendy_Nielsen Its a tough, tough question. Also circles back to the guilt over being happy to be alive. #bcsm
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RT @DrAttai: RT @kilani19: @DrBeckerSchutte @stales but more importantly why that person feels they arent worthy of their survival! #BCSM
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Hi all, late in my introduction. Im an oncology family therapist and cancer and family researcher. Here to absorb and learn! #bcsm
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There's definitely an element of PTSD involved. Many 'compartmentalize' to get thru & later discover a trough of unresolved conflict. #bcsm
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T3: @DrBeckerSchutte How does survivor's guilt impact our own healing and progress? #bcsm
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RT @DrBeckerSchutte: @Wendy_Nielsen It's a tough, tough question. Also circles back to the guilt over being happy to be alive. #bcsm
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We try so hard to explain the "why", when we just can't - so it must be someone's fault (ours) for surviving #bcsm
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Such an imp talk. RT @regrounding: Yes, but also talking about what I want for those who love me. They will honor me by LIVING FULLY! #bcsm
stales
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@barbstauff yes, you will get there! #bcsm
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@barbstauff I'm not sure. I've relaxed a bit, but fears still plague me. #BCSM
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RT @stales: T3: @DrBeckerSchutte How does survivors guilt impact our own healing and progress? #bcsm
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Yes, it gets better RT @barbstauff: Will there ever come a time when I dont think every little red mark or pain is a recurrance? #bcsm
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RT @stales: T3: @DrBeckerSchutte How does survivors guilt impact our own healing and progress? #bcsm
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Welcome!! MT @STrudeauH_MedFT: Hi all. Im an oncology family therapist and cancer and family researcher. Here to absorb and learn! #bcsm
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MT @ABHuret: Theres definitely an element of PTSD involved. Many compartmentalize to get thru & later discover a trough of <issues> #bcsm
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RT @Wendy_Nielsen: @feistybluegecko well, Im glad Im not alone. You ae SO not alone #bcsm
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Me. MT @ABHuret: definitely an element of PTSD involved. compartmentalize 2 get thru & later discover trough of unresolved conflict. #bcsm
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@Wendy_Nielsen I'm something of a guilt monger, but I'm ALWAYS happy to be alive. #bcsm
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RT @abowllan: “@jenniegrimes: #bcsm thanks everyone. Just a never-ending fear of reoccurrence and once the other ... I live in a constan ...
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A3: Obviously this is going to differ from person to person. One concern is that survivor's guilt causes you to neglect your health. #bcsm
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@ABHuret @feistybluegecko speaks to the ambiguity of cancer, the disease is physically absent yet psychologically present. #bcsm
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@STrudeauH_MedFT welcome! #bcsm
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T3: inability to move on with life. @stales @drbeckerschutte #bcsm
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RT @LGG1: @Wendy_Nielsen Im something of a guilt monger, but Im ALWAYS happy to be alive. #BCSM
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A3: Another issue is that survivor's guilt, if not named and discussed, can contribute to isolation, which isn't good for healing. #bcsm
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T3 Guilt can impede one from getting on w one's own goals in life and pursuing life with passion. #bcsm
barbstauff
I sometimes feel I got lymphedema as punishment for sailing through chemo and radiation #bcsm
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@STrudeauH_MedFT It is common for one spouse, to lose the will to live, when their spouse, partner dies. They soon follow. #survivor #bcsm
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RT @wendy_nielsen: T3: inability to move on with life. @stales @DrBeckerSchutte #bcsm
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RT @wendy_nielsen: T3: inability to move on with life. @stales @DrBeckerSchutte #bcsm
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@STrudeauH_MedFT Welcome to the discussion! #BCSM
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@STrudeauH_MedFT welcome to the chat; speaking about survivor's guilt with @DrBeckerSchutte #bcsm
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so how many bloggers are thinking that toxic sludge would be a great title for a blog post ;) #bcsm
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Hi all. Just got back from Frisco. Very late. #bcsm
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I think it's important to remain as positive & in touch w your thoughts & emotions on this topic in order to survive. #bcsm
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@ABHuret Yes, there will be some days, and then some weeks when you don't even think about cancer. #bcsm
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MT @DrBeckerSchutte: A3: One concern is that survivors guilt causes you to neglect your health. #bcsm
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yes! and impact your care of self RT @Wendy_Nielsen: T3: inability to move on with life. @stales @drbeckerschutte #bcsm
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Love that phrasing. MT @STrudeauH_MedFT: speaks to the ambiguity of cancer, the disease is physically absent & psychologically present #bcsm
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RT @drbeckerschutte A3 Obviously will differ from person to person. One concern is that survivor's guilt causes u to neglect ur health #bcsm
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RT @drbeckerschutte A3 Obviously will differ from person to person. One concern is that survivor's guilt causes u to neglect ur health #bcsm
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RT @danceswithpens: T3 Guilt can impede one from getting on w ones own goals in life and pursuing life with passion. #bcsm
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RT @danceswithpens: T3 Guilt can impede one from getting on w ones own goals in life and pursuing life with passion. #bcsm
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RT @feistybluegecko: so how many bloggers are thinking that toxic sludge would be a great title for a blog post ;) #bcsm

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